The reality of narcissistic abuse trauma
To begin, people are quick to say they are raised by narcissists whenever confronted with their negative actions. Parents become the blame game to ease themselves of the shame. However, this is not always the case.
It’s important to educate yourself on the narcissism meaning and narcissistic meaning to prove such accusations. With that being said, the true battered definition will be easy to read and take in if you are in a relationship yourself that involves the sadistic act of parental alienation.
Now, let’s dig deep to the cause of Narcissist parenting and how you can minimize the scars associated with the narcissistic abuse trauma.
Secondly, finding out if you were raised by Narcissists will be easy to spot once you know the signs of the personality disorder. Knowledge is power in this manipulation mindset that has unfortunately fallen down your family tree.
“What I found that was most important to me, however, was that in revisiting those old traumas, I became free of their emotional power. I sobbed through the writing of virtually every one of them and, re-reading them later, I cried again. And again. And then I realized that, because I was safe while writing and re-reading them, because I was not in the grip of the fear that characterized my interactions with my mother, those tears were healing.”Narcissist’s Child – The Blog
I highly suggest reading more into her personal blog to relate your own situation to the narcissistic personality.
How to heal from the narcissistic parenting abuse
Let’s face it, focusing on the past will not help you heal and mend any relationships that may have been broken from this disorder that might have been tossed down to you.
I can not give you advice on this, but I can direct you to the best information. Perhaps you have suffered from a borderline disorder of the sort, and are giving out unnecessary negative energy to the ones you love ?
Maybe you aren’t sure if you have any disorder. This is common when in an abusive narcissistic relationship, where you are tangled in a manipulation tactic of, “is it me that’s the problem?”
There is also a chance of being mistakenly called narcissistic along with the ugly symptoms associated with it.
Becoming educated on being raised by Narcissists while supporting mental health awareness
Finally, if this is the case for you I highly recommend the Creative Aspirationz blog.
The passion of someone that decided to take control of their mental health. and not let society beat them down. How inspiring that she is still be able to function (in my opinion, better than us) and still raise awareness.
I read this blog quite a bit because it gives me hope that my own female Psychopath will get better. My hopes may run much too high of my ex spouse.
Realization of the abuse and destruction that is harming our daughter should be simple. It’s not. My child’s Mother doesn’t understand there is help available, but that doesn’t mean I stop trying.
It is my job to understand and work with any mental disorder that comes our way. You can protect your family. Working with what I have before me, and this includes sacrifices from any angle that needs to be managed.
Nevertheless, it has given me ways to minimize the abuse. Education is also taught on how mental disorders are confused by society is a real eye opener!
it’s important to gain knowledge from a true fighter teaching others the same battle that she is clearly winning, regardless of what she thinks. Keep it up!
“I suppose that’s why I get annoyed when others consider me to be narcissistic because of my borderline personality disorder when I’m the complete opposite – I feel too much and love too much and it sends my brain into overdrive in a modernized society although it’s possible to fall in love again but for now it’s settling down in my new home ♡“Creative Aspirationz – The Creative Borderline