What are the symptoms of narcissistic abuse?
To start, people that have narcissistic victim syndrome have to deal with a person that shows common personality traits such as:
Along with those typical behaviours, an abusive narcissist also has a manipulative lethal weapon for control and that is love.
Or lack of it.
World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day has compiled a ton of red flags to look out for on their website and here are a few from them:
You can’t feel at ease or relaxed in their presence. You feel like you’re walking on eggshells, waiting for the next time they lash out at you. You realize you feel a sense of relief when they aren’t there.
You feel like whatever you do, it’s not enough. You’re manipulated so that your flaws and vulnerabilities are exploited and used against you at every opportunity. You begin to feel inadequate, unlovable, and like everything is all your fault.
Narcissism is an intricate, well-constructed series of traits wrapped up in one mental illness that is extremely damaging to all who cross the paths of a narcissist, especially their lovers.
Is it possible that through the ugly mask that they have a little bit of love left for their children?
Whenever this question comes up, you better be up for debate.
The narcissist parenting has its emotional roller-coasters of love and hate.
It seems like an easy answer, “absolutely not” when you hear about the arrogance from my child’s impossible parent.
Stories often heard about spouses showing narcissistic abuse tactics with their children as weapons in family court.
Therefore, how can somebody love their children yet still put them right in the way of emotional harm?
they don’t want to speak of the parental alienation that is so easily ignored by the people that are supposed to protect your children.
How can a person love their child after pushing another part of their flesh and blood away for their self-entitled world of:
“The children only need me“
I know first hand of the severity that comes with being a victim of narcissistic abuse in relationships.
You could be diagnosed with an narcissistic abuse syndrome, and the realization of your cold soul might come to you when you start to see the following:
These accusations will throw you off guard and that’s exactly when you realize what you are up against.
The supreme manipulator has been doing this to you for years.
Just perfectly enough to reel you into their realm of feeling superior.
This leaves you in utter shock as to how somebody could be so selfish and leave you behind.
Ultimately, you fall victim to the Narcissist as you succumb into a world of anxiety and depression.
you are probably still blinded by fake love.
This is right where the Narcissist wants you in their inflated sense of importance.
However, even if you know the truth you are only being played with a toxic spell called gaslighting.
Being abused and dealing with the trauma it can be hard to get support or even get off the couch to get help as everything is so confusing.
You don’t feel like yourself anymore.
Feeling trapped by a malicious parent or ex-spouse.
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Narcissistic victim syndrome abuse
The unfortunate thing is that a Narcissist can play any role possible that they feel fit.
It gives them the “glory” among their peers.
This can leave you tangled in the mess of narcissistic triangulation which can be the downfall of anybody that hasn’t educated themselves on this nasty disorder.
We also know that mental health issues such as, “Postpartum depression” give these women a false reality in life.
It becomes a nightmare once you are told they are just, “protecting the children”
The children become a scapegoat to narcissistic abuse
The almighty self-involved parent wants the children to be just like them.
Therefore, constant abuse will happen if the child is showing love to you.
A narcissistic parent will not want any positive talk about you in their household.
The mask has come off and patience is crucial at this point.
They fully understand the chaos they are causing, and it’s driving you nuts that they don’t care about any of it.
You will begin searching for how to get some narcissist revenge very quickly.
A Narcissist picks their target carefully. You are likely an involved parent, have empathy and put others before yourself.
It seemed the Narcissist and yourself were the same kind of people, a match made in heaven.
You are in for a pleasant surprise on the true “battered” meaning.
How to deal with a narcissist needs to be your priority, It is in the best interest of yourself to realize that this person that you see is now, is who they have always been.
Healing from narcissistic abuse is fueled by your energy
Sexual abuse on your daughter? The Narcissist knows you didn’t sexually abuse your daughter.
They want you to freak out and look as crazy as possible, so your best bet is to understand how to crush a narcissist
Rise above and be professional in all of it, it’s the best way to protect your children and your mental health.
Whether the family court has begun or not, you must always act professionally.
Narcissistic abuse relationships full of deceit
False allegations are becoming much more common and associated with the narcissistic disorder.
However, don’t expect a soul to see or understand what’s happening to you.
Unfortunately, people might even encourage you to get back with your ex because of the picture she has painted of herself.
Friends and even family may believe the Narcissist because of the grandiose act that is played so well.
I am on the fence with Postpartum Depression as it is something that I have been dealing with shortly after our daughter was born.
As chaotic my ex-spouse may be, there are times when I can see she isn’t fully there like she…
used to be.
But she never was how I thought she was.
My child’s Mother has stopped caring about even trying to make it look like she cares for the child.
Such as, medical incidents that were not passed on to me regarding our daughter’s health.
The delusional sense of entitlement as she feels she isn’t obligated to tell me anything.
A nasty narcissistic supply is what Narcissists feed off of.
You desperately want to be in the child’s life, but can’t.
I agree with the fact that if you are in denial you won’t get better, because after 2 years it has only got much worse.
You can’t reason with a parent that lacks empathy
On the other hand, I feel that a Narcissist realizes everything they have done and just don’t want to admit it.
I see that in my ex-spouse at times, but she has dug herself so deeply that admitting everything and making the child happy would not be beneficial for herself.
Uncovering all the lies would only make her less than what she feels she needs to be, and that’s at the top of the family violence pyramid.
This has been in not only her family’s generation of child abusers against the other parent but my own family as well.
Men’s health and children involved
covert personality traits should be taken with ease.
At the end of the day, we all put a label on everything just to put a bandaid on the situation and now we have a generation that has no family values.
I strongly believe that everything can be pushed past mentally if you swallow your pride and think of your children.
Ignore the “power” trips and stop feeding a Narcissist their abusive supply.
Heal your scars from the abuse.
Ultimately, avoiding inflicting narcissistic injury and malicious narcissistic rage is two things I wish I had done.
A victims road to healing the narcissistic abuse takes time
With a few cases of recovery, I am not taking chances with our daughter still in the line of chaos.
Understanding the difference between a Narcissist and Sociopath traits is key to your situation.
If my ex-spouse suddenly focuses on our child instead of what hidden scars she can put on our child for the week she has her, I might have hope to bring our family back.
However, as of right now the Gray Rock Method is what protects my child from the subtle abuse.
From my personal experience, a narcissistic Mother does not and will not ever love their children.
I will not take chances on “hope” as I will continue to protect myself and my daughter from the horrible narcissistic abuse symptoms family court chooses to ignore for their own dirty, and filthy money.