Temper tantrums for constant admiration
First off, narcissism meaning is not to be confused with egocentrism. However, they are only slightly different. Egocentrism personalities will not need the gratification of ones own admiration like a narcissistic personality.
“Often the Narcissist believes that other people are “faking it”, leveraging emotional displays to achieve a goal. He is convinced that their ostensible “feelings” are grounded in ulterior, non-emotional motives. Faced with other people’s genuine emotions, the narcissist becomes suspicious and embarrassed. He feels compelled to avoid emotion-tinged situations, or worse, experiences surges of almost uncontrollable aggression in the presence of expressed sentiments. They remind him how imperfect he is and how poorly equipped.”
― Sam Vaknin, Malignant Self-Love: Narcissism Revisited
History of the Narcissism Meaning
The term “narcissism” comes from the Greek myth about Narcissus (Greek: Νάρκισσος, Narkissos), a handsome Greek youth who, according to Ovid, rejected the desperate advances of the nymph Echo. This caused Narcissus to fall in love with his own reflection in a pool of water.
The narcissistic meaning is similar, but there are many different narcissist personality types.
Narcissism is part of the dark triad personality traits (one being seated with the female psychopath) Most notably psychopathy, and the other Machiavellianism.
Narcissism and the abuse
It may seem that a Narcissist is much happier without you in their lives now, and you may still not be able to get them out of your head. Even so, you might even feel responsible for the breakdown of the relationship. All the good times, the hysterical laughs, the amazing presents, the talks of the future, and the numerous things you shared in common.
The love disappeared so quickly, and your narcissistic ex has moved on with ease.
A huge part of the narcissism meaning is manipulation and control.
The mind games that is used to abuse your mental health is what these blood sucking creatures want; continuing to feed their supply of your pain and agony, as long as you allow them
What is actually under the mask of narcissism meaning?
A frightening reality check. Sociopath VS Narcissist VS Psychopath all have the need for admiration and power to keep them moving. It’s a constant feeding that must be taken from any target that has this delicious supply.
Secondly, once this supply runs out so does their whole soul. In my case, with my female Psychopath, I quickly learned to not feed the demon their supply.
Sources for her supply were:
- confusion from the sudden discard and narcissistic rage in court
- excessive court papers keeping me from the ability to work
- smear campaigns with childcare using narcissistic triangulation, forcing people to dislike me over false allegations
- malicious ministry visits, and calls to further destroy my image
- speaking bad about me to our daughter
- keeping our daughter from me
Understandably, these were times the narcissism meaning shined bright. I am thankful to have learned how to get revenge on a narcissist.
However, rebuilding the bond became my main priority.
Sure enough, it’s even bigger now. With the help of the Gray Rock Method there was no supply to feed off of anymore. It is frightening how you are looking at a complete zombie, with no features once the supply is gone.
The new supply quickly came from a new relationship, but with every Narcissist the ability to love is only a mask. That supply is fading quickly.
Continuously on the go for a new target of supply, a Narcissist is always on the hunt.
What causes narcissism?
As with many disorders, the actual cause is unknown. Possible reasons as noted by Health Direct could be:
- insensitive parenting
- over-praising and excessive pampering – when parents focus intensely on a particular talent or the physical appearance of their child as a result of their own self-esteem issues
- unpredictable or negligent care
- excessive criticism
- extremely high expectations
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