What is psychological abuse from gaslighting?
Whether it is gaslighting parents or just mind-playing in general, the devious act is extremely damaging in a narcissistic relationship
Have you ever felt that you were right about something, but even with facts right in front of your face you slowly begin to doubt the obvious?
You are usually pretty confident in your opinions, but suddenly you can’t trust anything around you that used to make sense.
You just aren’t feeling the same anymore.
Are you going crazy? It’s possible.
Or you are a victim of gaslighting, a common part of the narcissistic abuse cycle
Thrivetalk gives the following definition about being gaslighted:
Gaslighting is a manipulative tactic in which a person, to gain power and control, plants seeds of uncertainty in the victim. The self-doubt and constant skepticism slowly and meticulously cause the individual to question their reality.
With that being said, gaslighting parents love to use parental alienation on their children because it’s easy it is to have kids believe every word they are told.
Gaslighting in dysfunctional families
A narcissistic personality known as a covert narcissist is common with a gaslighting abusive parent.
Common signs to look for:
It is extremely hard to convince somebody in a gaslighting relationship, or has gaslighting parents, that they are in this toxic abuse.
This is because they are in a trauma bonding stage, and breaking the bond usually requires medical assistance.
Reality of a gaslighting co parent
What is often a common problem in divorce court?
Power and control. This is especially true if you are dealing with a narcissistic sociopath.
However, gaslighting parents do not want to feel any kind of shame towards them.
You will get to see them show nothing but love out in the public, but verbally abusive behind closed doors.
Spite goes hand in hand with narcissistic parenting. Children being psychologically abused will happen as a way to get back at the other parent. My daughter’s narcissistic Mother religiously does this.
If you are not careful, you could be joining in on the abuse without even knowing it.
Children are not able to differ between the right and wrong of a narcissistic parent.
Signs of gaslighting
Consistently saying, “I’m sorry” to avoid hostility, even though you know yourself you are the one being mistreated.
Over a period of time, the emotional abuse will eventually make you think you are the actual abuser.
I have been dealing with a narcissistic mother for a long time, and I know each and every manipulative tactic.
There are terms for individual manipulative techniques and signs of bad behavior to look for:
Withholding narcissistic gaslighting abuse
Refusing to listen or share their emotions
Throwing the victim off the actual subject
Blocking and Diverting
Another form of throwing victims off the subject when the gaslighter sees they are beginning to lose A narcissistic triangulation can be formed in their defence
Making the victim believe that their thoughts and feelings are not important
How to deal with gaslighting
It’s not easy dealing with the manipulations, nor is it easy to watch.
The road to narcissistic abuse recovery is a long and lonely one, but you don’t have to face it alone.
Dealing with gaslighting
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